NICOLAY THERAPY

validated & successful since 1998

Phone:  +49-89-12003232  

E-Mail: info@nicolay.coach

Conflict Resolution

Clarity, connection, and new perspectives

Every family is unique – and deserves an approach that honors its individual dynamics.

With over 20 years of experience as a systemic family therapist, I offer precise, respectful, and compassionate guidance to help bring lasting change to your everyday family life.

Would you like to learn how I can support you?

Schedule your free online initial consultation today.

Let’s create a strong foundation for a more harmonious, connected, and fulfilling family atmosphere.

Details about my background and qualifications can be found in my bio.

Physical Contact for Mental Health

Because love is something you can feel.

As a mother, you intuitively know: physical closeness is essential for your child’s development.

Touch creates connection – a deep sense of love, trust, and safety.

Whether it’s a hug, a gentle hand on the back, or simply holding hands – these small moments of connection regulate emotions, support brain development, reduce stress, and strengthen your child’s emotional foundation.

When you offer physical closeness, you’re not just showing affection –

you’re building a lifelong bond rooted in love and security.

This sense of being held – emotionally and physically – is one of the most powerful gifts you can give.

As a mother, you know that providing physical contact is crucial for your child's development. Physical touch creates a bond based on love, security, and trust, which helps regulate emotions, improve brain development, physical growth, and mental health, and reduce stress. Snuggling, or holding hands are always to show affection to your child and make a significant difference in their world. When you provide physical contact, you're building a lifelong relationship based on love, security, and trust. This sense of security, love, and support is essential for your child's emotional well-being.

Physical Contact for Mental Health

Success Stories

  • "Our formerly very tense family situation is now more carefree and happier. For me and my three children, counseling has meant that we treat each other more carefully, show our feelings and try to hear and understand the needs of the other. We are in the process of firmly integrating this process into our family life and not falling back into the old behavior pattern even if we fail."

    Family Janssen (May 2005)

  • “Andreas is more independent when studying, and to our delight, his school grades have improved significantly. Martin also shows progress in independent learning. Your coaching has made me aware that the responsibility for my sons' academic achievements cannot and must not rest on my shoulders alone! This has significantly contributed to relaxation and harmonization in our family. The family meetings are also continued with us.”

    Family Engelhard (June 2009)

  • “The consultations with you gave my daughter and me a very good impetus! Our daughter now organizes her afternoons with the various elements of homework, hobbies, tidying up, getting ready, etc. independently and competently. As a mother, I have managed to let go and transfer responsibility for these issues to my daughter. With very good results, both in academic performance and in our communication style.”

    Family Feller (February 2008)

  • “The entire family situation has relaxed, and everyday life is much more harmonious with a significantly higher quality of living together. Her approach to empowering children has helped us all a lot.”

    Dr. C. Stierlen (July 2006)

  • "Family and work are a unit for me. In order to achieve my full potential, it is necessary for me that things are right in the family. Since we attended the seminar and individual consultations with you, I have found much more peace and strength in my family. My wife and children feel the same way. Thank you very much."

    Family Hofmann (July 2007)

  • "I got to know Nicolay's family coaching and it helped me a lot to solve existing disharmonies in my family to my satisfaction. I can recommend it very much. I'd say better take some coaching sessions early in a conflict than late. Then successes are faster and more likely."

    Dr. Mehringer, Physician and Psychotherapist